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5.12.11 MY SISTER MICKIE

My sister Mickie was the most beautiful darling that one could ever wish to know with naturally curly dark hair and the deepest of blue eyes. She was so much like our very beautiful mother with her own rich blue eyes and dark hair. Not at all like me with blonde straight hair.

Mickie on left, Hazel on right, and their Mother in the middle

I was two & and a half when the Ashford Hospital was opened by the Duke and Duchess of Kent. My Grandma who was holding by tiny baby sister said, `Look Hazel and remember this carriage drawn by 2 horses carrying the Duke and Duchess, it is an important memory`. I have never forgotten this sight of the carriage passing along Sackville Crescent below us, because we were upstairs looking out of the window. I stroked my sisters tiny little bare foot as I gazed at this magnificent sight.
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Little did I know that I would become a State Registered nurse in this lovely new hospital followed by Mickie who also became an SRN. Mickie unfortunately had an undiagnosed dyslexia from our fathers side. Kept down a year at the now Highworth girls Grammar school and sent to an agricultural college from school she came across my nursing books and taught herself to read and write. She also by her own efforts became a registered Mental nurse. She met Neil who was the new house surgeon at Ashford Hospital when she was sister of casualty and out patients. I lived down Kings Avenue nearby the hospital and they would meet in my home. It was love at first sight.

A popular lively little soul who loved to pretend to be a dog at meal times, to be fed under the table she joined me in our love of singing, copying our very beautiful mother a trained soloist with the same singing teacher as actress Evelyn Laye her best friend, she sang in the Dome in Brighton and at weddings etc. Mummy as we always called her, trained our own voices. Mickie in operas and me as a choral singer, this included a duet with Alfred Deller and with the Paris Coservatoire and in the Albert Hall- the local opera society begged me to join but felt I had little time to spare. Mickie & I also loved dancing which we did on the dining room table pretending it was our stage. We three, Mummy, Mickie and I sang all the time and Leonne does the same. Mickie and I also became obsessed with horses, I do not know why but we have always loved them. I have a lovely photo of her on Gemini her very own half Arab horse.

We also loved dogs and one day we walked each side of Godington road knocking on doors to see if they had a dog to take out. Right at the farthest end of this very long road we each found a dog. I had Trixie a fat little black and white terrier my side of the road and Mickie had a very pretty little dog. How we loved them and were really amazed to receive money and sweets as a reward for taking them out.

The farms around us were a great attraction and really welcomed us. We fed sock lambs with their bottles, threw corn for the chicken. On the top of Great Chart Hill above the church we were taught how to groom the two huge cart horses and we were allowed to fill our blazer pockets with cow cake to feed any animal which wanted it. We would bribe horses in the fields to stand near the gate so that we could take turns sitting on them bareback, holding their manes.

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The Walk in Pearson Park

by Hazel Griggs
read 17th October 2015 in Orpington

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Sweety

One day the owners of Twinkle could not find her, they searched and searched, finally they telephoned me. Of course I drove over and went into their big garden, here I called her name and to our surprise she came out of the undergrowth instead of her usual bed in the large shed. Surprisingly she was followed by a baby chick. This little chick was coloured white, not black with brown neck feathers like its mother. This was such a mystery, who could be the father of this sweet little chick? Soon the mystery was solved. Flying into the garden was a white cockerel, it turned out to be Cherry, flying from the farm which was near by. This was such a surprise, a rather nice surprise, we named the baby chick Sweety because she really was so sweet and very friendly, Her parents Twinkle and Cherry were so fond of her, it was lovely the way they stroked her gently with their beaks and made sure she was eating properly and having enough sleep, which meant a day sleep snuggled between her parents in the afternoon and going to bed early. When she was six months old she could use the perch with her mother in the shed instead of sleeping on a nest of hay.

Sweety was quite mischievious

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The true story of Cherry

by Hazel Griggs
read 17th October 2015 in Orpington

One day my next door neighbour Mr Ward offered me a Day Old chick which was not eating and would die. I accepted this baby and carefully nursed it back to health. I hand fed it, anointed its emaciated little body with olive oil which allowed its first tiny feathers to grow. I was told it was a female which is known as a pullet, this meant that one day it would lay eggs, welcome news in these war time days of food rationing. My father cut a hole in his shed as a front door for the little chick to go to sleep and later on to lay its eggs.

As it grew and the comb which is its fleshy top of its head became bright red I named her Cherry. She became very very tame and even when she was out of my sight running loose in our huge garden she would come running to me when I called her name or whistled.
She loved me picking her up to be talked to and stroked. I would sit on the seat at the top of the garden cuddling her on my lap. Her adult plumage was white, and she looked so smart with her bright red comb.

I was fifteen years old and the second world was becoming dangerous, this meant that we must all dig our own air raid shelters in our gardens between air raids. We lived in a row of houses running at the back of our huge garden and were very friendly with all our neighbours, calling out and talking to them as we all dug our air raid shelters.

It was a lovely hot summers day as we helped our Dad dig, this was very difficult with the heavy clay soil. Suddenly we all heard this sound of a cockerel crowing…..there was Cherry crowing and crowing away, Cherry was a boy, a cockerel, never to lay eggs. You never heard such laughter as all the neighbours, my sister and brother and my parents and I laughed and laughed. There was Cherry standing at the highest point of the air raid shelter, crowing and crowing!

Later on I found a kind farmer who would look after Cherry because we could not have him crowing and annoying the neighbours. I used to cycle over to see him and he seemed quite happy in his new home. He still had the strange limp affecting one leg from his early illness, and he still remembered me.

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THE TRUE STORY OF TWINKLE

by Hazel Griggs
read 17th October 2015 in Orpington

I used to love looking at my day old chicks snuggled under their infra red heater every Spring. They were in The Lodge a building next to my kitchen. It was easy to go down my three kitchen steps into the back yard and into the next door. They stayed there for six weeks.

However this time one of the chicks would notice me and would leave the heater to come up to me. Instead of being pure black like the other chicks it had a few brown feathers round its neck. I did not really notice it at that time, I was probably cooking lunch and just taking a few minutes to check that no chick had strayed too far away from the heater. As they grew older and stronger they would move away from the heater naturally.

When the chicks first arrived they would be snuggly packed into a small box where they could keep warm. Newly hatched they did not need food, the egg that they left that morning had provided enough nourishment. Their first meal was a very fine grit which would fill their gizzard to help them digest food. They ran about eagerly picking up all the grit with their little beaks.

Their next meal was tiny pellets of nourishing food, they were always provided with clean water. One day I found a dead chick, horrified I notified the authorities and an inspector came to find the cause, having fifty day old chicks meant I had to notify them. I was very relieved to hear that the cause of the loss of my little chick was that mice had entered the Lodge from my next door neighbours and frightened the chick away from the heater. The inspector became a good friend, very interested in the way I kept my chicken and often called.

When the chicks were six weeks old and not requiring heat they were transferred to an Ark outside in the orchard. This was covered with mesh, and one end was their sleeping quarters. The Ark was moved daily to fresh grass, when they were older at three months they were allowed to safely run about outside the Ark. However the orchard was divided into pens by a tall fence so that no fox could harm them. Also they were carefully locked in at night to make sure they were safe from foxes.

At the age of eight months and at the point of lay, when they would soon be laying eggs they were transferred to the deep litter house. I was so lucky to buy the house, I saw the advert and very early in the morning drove to the address, it was just the right size for fifty laying hens. The kind man even paid for it to be delivered to me. I was also lucky that a very kind electrician friend fixed up all the electric system. I needed electric lights for night time inspections of the hens. Also I would carry my vacuum cleaner in to dust the ledges once a month.

The deep litter house had about a foot of wooden shavings, called litter. These I collected free from one of my husbands Councillors about every three months. They remained clean but gradually diminished, needing a top up sometimes. the Councillor saved the best white shavings and helped me put them in my sacks to carry them.

The deep litter house had automatic water and feed systems, my Inspector friend said that it was the best running deep litter system in Kent. Also he said being a woman was an advantage because the chicken remained calm producing an egg each a day. whilst entering twice a day to collect the eggs and make sure the chicken which I called my girls were alright I noticed one of them would come up and follow me. I realised it was the same chicken with a little brown feathers around its neck, I called her Twinkle, she always kept close to me and I would pick her up and stroke her under her neck.

One of my daughters friends, Victoria wanted a chicken so I gave her one and told her how to feed it, they had a large shed with an opening for it go in and out. A perch was made inside for it to sleep. I found that my chicken would choose the same position on their perches every night, this made it easy if I needed to pick up one examine it.
I could tell if they were laying eggs.

One day I had a phone call from Victoria, her chicken was unwell, I told her to bring it to me to see if I could make it better. However after about a week it sadly died, I did not tell Victoria this but gave her Twinkle, Explaining that the brown feathers on her neck were due to the medicine.k

Thirty years later which was a very long time, I heard that Twinkle was still alive. I drove over to see her, she heard my voice and came running to me. She was still laying an egg a day, but it was a soft egg, with no shell, she was allowed to eat it. I wished I had a camera to remember this remarkable Twinkle.

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EMILY s LITTLE SEEDS

by Hazel Griggs
read 17th October 2015 in Orpington

They were just little seeds, a special offer from the supermarket to be taken home and store in the large glass storage jar on the window cill, a Christmas present that Emily was given. She was wondering what to keep in the jar. The shiny black seeds half filled it.

One night Mary was just going to bed and went to the kitchen for a glass of water and she noticed that the glass storage jar looked different, walking closer she realised that the jar was full little snake like serpents growing rapidly andsquirming tightly together, the seeds were really eggs.

Horrified Mary found a large empty aquarium and tipped the wriggly creatures into it and placed a tight lid on after making some air holes. she went upstairs to bed but found that she just could not sleep, sleep really escaped her, so finally she went downstairs and made herself a really nice cup of tea. The same tea that she had posted to Hazel in England, and watched a game show on television, whilst nibbling some meringues which she had bought to eat with strawberries.

Strange how the shock of seeing these squirming snake like creatures had made her so wide awake. The frightening thing was their rate of growth, they were the size of eels, perhaps they were eels and should be placed in a river.

Still feeling apprehensive Mary took a photograph of these tightly packed squirming slippery grey creatures.
These were sent to scientists all over the world.

At last they seemed to have stopped growing, but Mary locked the kitchen door before creeping upstairs to bed.

Waking late the next morning Mary hastily showered and dressed before waking Emily. Downstairs they went to have some breakfast and quietly unlocked and opened the kitchen door. but there was no sign of the eel like creatures. Emily did not really believe the story that Mary told her. However Mary persuaded Emily to help look for them. They were just going on holiday so Mary helped Emily to pack after their breakfast and off they went in Mary s car for a camping holiday.

However they dismissed this worrying experience as they drove off to the countryside near a river. they found a nice area with beautiful views to build their tent and the weather was nice enough to just wear T shirts and shorts. the birds seemed extra colourful and their song beautiful. They knew their were no crocodiles and dangerous snakes in this area so they could really relax in the warm Australian sunshine and had many picturesque walks.

They switched on the television when they returned from their camping holiday to hear that some one in London had found a nest of eel like creatures underneath their bird table and they were growing rapidly just like Mary and Emily’s. More reports of similar creatures occurred in Australia. Identification by expert on the photographs recently taken by Mary proved inconclusive, they not typical eels apparently.

About a month later all these creatures turned into chrysalises hanging fro from flower plants before reappearing as beautiful butterflies. a TV crew investigating the countryside for their next film about a murder mystery discovered the dry empty chrysalises hanging down from any plants making the foliage black. Large areas of blackened countryside appeared and were increasing. The government required urgent information, scientists took samples and did their best to monitor the situation. There was a fear that food may become affected.

However a scientist in Australia discovered that if you caught these creatures and kept them in large aquariums they would produce eggs looking like little black seeds, they were just like Emily’s little black seeds. However it was found that these seeds contained oil, which could be used to drive cars, power lights and heating in houses and be used to cook. a very useful commodity in these days of oil shortage and very cheap to have.

in fact people were already buying these special greenhouse to provide their own oil.Mary and Emily were soon interviewed by TV companies and spoke on television, they were becoming famous.
They even spoke in the Australian Parliament and were invited to meet Queen Elizabeth in London.
However all these exciting experiences had to be done in the school holidays. they were very thrilled to receive a substantial cheque each which they put in the bank. Ian thought the money should be invested in his coffee shop business. Mel felt she needed a holiday, she could leave the twins with Mary and Emily.
Mary and Emily were trying to think of something to buy, may be new clothes. Then Mary thought that it would soon be Emily’s 6th Birthday and thought that it would be a good idea to make Emily a birthday cake with 6 candles, also she would take Emily to the shops to chose as present.

THE. END. NONE OF THIS STORY IS TRUE, LOTS OF LOVE NANNA. HAZELXxxx

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With Samantha from Sex and the City

With Samantha from Sex and the City

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Hazel Griggs on the BBC talking about Black Dust in Dover

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Evacuee 1940

The date we were evacuated was the first day of the Autumn term September 1940 during the Battle of Britain.. My sister Mickie went with the school that day and I travelled the following day with my four year old brother and my mother who needed me to look after her with her heart condition and the promise that we would meet up with my school and sister. The train left the station at 9.15am for an unknown destination, the place where we had been standing was bombed shortly after wards, the line we were on was bombed during our journey and we had to be diverted. The train was not a corridor train and children were being held out of the windows for their toileting needs. We stopped once to queue for a toilet, needing to cross railway lines to reach it.

We reached Oxford station in the evening and were taken by coach to Thame where we sat in a huge circle on the wooden floor of a wooden building to be chosen by people walking round looking at us, I remember thinking that this must been how the slaves felt when they were being chosen. My mother was given a wooden chair and we were offered sandwiches and drinks,

A lady put her arms round us begging for us to stay with her, she lived on a farm and said that we would love it there but she was not allowed to have us because she was just out of the area. We were the last people to be allocated and were taken to an elderly childless couple who owned a hardware shop on the corner of the main street opposite the Butter market, by now it was very late and dark and we were exhausted but. Mr and Mrs Lewis were extremely kind and showed us to our really lovely bedrooms next to each other. They gave us one cooked meal a day and sufficient rations for me to organise breakfast and lunch in our part of the beautiful Georgian house. We were in the servants quarters and could use our basic living room upstairs next to our bedrooms during the day. We had to struggle up a narrow circular staircase with a loose hessian carpet which I had to keep knocking tacks into to make it reasonably safe. Our kitchen was downstairs, although we didn`t cook, but made sandwiches to take out every day in the country with my lively little well behaved brother. On one of our walks we saw two adders entwined along the top of a chestnut paling fence, their brilliant colouring enhanced by the sun, they must have been well over a metre long.

Distraught tired and anxious we could get no news from Ashford and no money furthermore the schools were full and could not take my brother who was due to start school in November when he would be five.years old or myself aged 16 years of age. We had a wind up gramophone and one record in our sitting room, I soon learnt `Serenade in the Night `neath a Fair Lady`s Window` by heart.. Downstairs in the beautiful Georgian panelled dining room with its Georgian corner fireplace where we shared the evening meal with Mr and Mrs Lewis was an electric Gramophone with records of all the works of Elgar, my mother`s favourite composer. Mrs Lewis said we could play the records any time but we were too shy to use it. They had a huge kitchen garden where Mr Lewis his hands crippled with arthritis enjoyed showing me the fruit trees and produce, this was where I groomed their lovely golden cocker spaniel, my very favourite dog, not realising that ten years later newly married, my sister would give me a golden cocker puppy promised to her by one of her patients as a wedding gift for me.. These were grim devastating days,

Every day I went to the Town Hall to try and find news of my father and sister, not knowing whether they were dead or alive and with the anxiety of no money. We were bombed twice, one fell on the cricket ground half a mile away. The air raid siren was fixed at the top of my bed room window, an ear shattering grim sound.

One day we saw an advert for a ward maid in the requisitioned Rycote Manor containing the entire children`s wards of the Radcliffe Infirmary.. My mother agreed that I should go and have an interview. I had always wanted to be a nurse and had been awarded an Exhibition scholarship by my school for a two year prenursing course the first to be awarded in Kent.

I caught the bus and walked over two fields to reach the beautiful ancient Manor House and was accepted as a ward maid. I had to wear a pink dress and overall, with an old fashioned mop cap – a starched circle of material which had a tape near the perimeter to draw up into this huge mop cap. My first instruction was to clean all the lockers. I had to carry them downstairs to the coutyard, one at a time, taking it outside and scrub it out leaving it to dry in the warm sun shine. I was so slow I was quickly made dining room maid.

To be a dining room maid I had to wear a black dress, white lace cap and apron and cuffs. , I had to borrow the other dining room maid`s clothes because I could not spare clothing coupons and of course had little money. I also had to learn to serve the food using two dessertspoons in one hand and holding the dish with the other, ever scared of dropping the food into the Sisters and Doctors laps. I had to make sure the dining table and cutlery was pristine and laid correctly for twelve or more, I had my own parlour where I kept my `joy of joy`s an electric polisher. I was also allowed to help with the children and feed the babies, sitting with them under sunlamps both wearing goggles. I constantly asked if I could join the nurses lectures and the Matron was going to interview me but I decided to return home before seeing her.

Every morning I was in the kitchen for half an hour preparing breakfast on a huge black tray for the day sisters` breakfast which I had to carry up the very wide stair case to her room. Tentatively knocking on the door I entered when she said `enter` putting the tray down in the dark and walked over to the massive velvet curtains covering two beautiful windows and opened them to allow the bright sunshine pour into this huge room, displaying the day sister resplendent in her curlers sitting up in the four poster bed. I placed the bed tray over her before balancing the heavy black tray on it and went down stairs to the kitchen. For this half hour every morning my duties overlapped with those of the night nurse clearing up before she went off duty, and during this brief time we chatted, never dreaming that we would meet again five years later, and still the greatest of friends in our eighty`s! It was this night nurse Olive that I met again after becoming an SRN whilst doing my compulsory first part midwifery course at St Heliers Hospital Carshalton, chosen because it was the most modern in the country. One day we wondered where we had met before, yes it was at Rycote Manor!

While at Rycote I used to explore the vast grounds and lake where there was a rowing boat. The owner saw me one day and said the family had moved to a smaller house on the estate for the duration and he gave me permission to use the boat whenever I wished. One day I struggled through the dense overgrown under growth

to reach a tower that I could see in the distance, It turned out to be an old church, I struggled to reach a door in this gloomy dark area and managed to push it open as it eerily creaked, I had to really feel my way over the uneven paving through into the church and was momentorily blinded and utterly amazed at the beautiful sight of the bright sun pouring through beautiful stained glass windows in the distance. I paused hardly daring to move at this unexpected sight, and eventually made my way to the altar pausing to gaze at what seemed an elevated throne half way up the church. I was to learn thirty years later whilst obtaining my BA, Hons degree with the Open University, that this was indeed a Throne, used by King Charles 1st whilst staying at Rycote Manor.

Sometimes when the day sister had her day off, we took turns to have a bath in the most gorgeous completely marbled bathroom I have ever seen. Exquisite sparkling gold taps adorned this massive bath. We forgot that water was rationed, there was no six inch high tube to prevent the water becoming deeper than 6 inches, compulsory through the country..

Unbeknown to me my poor mother was taken ill again and efforts to locate my father resulted in him travelling to Thame to take her home, amazingly he was on the very same bus as me when I was going to Thame to see her,. She had left Mr and Mrs Lewis and was staying with Mrs Quanting meanwhile my bicycle had arrived so that I could cycle to and from Thame, but I gave in my month`s notice having been working for a few months and went home to Ashford and returned to school where I was made head of my House Becket.. This meant going straight down into the zig zag underground shelters on the front lawn of the school. At each corner of the zig zag was a dim oil lamp, our cold feet in their Wellington boots rested on duck boards with a feeble attempt to keep them out of the water. We leant against the freezing damp concrete walls trying to hear what was being said by the poor teacher standing in the corner of the zig zag..

I shall never forget the excited happy feeling I had cycling at 6am in the morning to catch my train home to my family. The sun was jusr rising in front of me, a most glorious colourful sunrise that I was cycling straight into all the way to Oxford with carefully packed provisions given me by the generous concerned cook. I knew also that my sister was alive and well. A few months later notices all over Ashford instructed us to be evacuated again. I wrote in my diary in capital letters – I REFUSE TO BE EVACUATED AGAIN.

I corresponded with my lovely little dining room maid friend whom I had shared a bed room with, and who took me to dances, teaching me how to get rid of over friendly men. I also wrote to Mr and Mrs Lewis for very many years. And as I have already mentioned I had the unexpected pleasure of renewing my friendship with my life long friend Olive when I was twenty one. Evacuation was an experience with its compensations. .